Mistakes To Avoid For Men When Dating

Here the most common mistakes men make with women during the early stages of dating and beyond. I am not going to pull any punches in this article. Anything less would be a disservice to you as this information could make a real difference in your relationships.

Spend a huge amount of money on the first date.

This is one of the most common mistakes. There's a number of reasons why this is a bad idea. (1.) You don't know if you're ever going to see her again after the first date. You may find that you don't like her or that there's no chemistry once you've had an opportunity to get to know her. Or she may not like you. If any of these things is the outcome, and it frequently is on the first date, you've wasted a huge sum of money. (2.) You can find out a lot about a woman by deliberately spending a small amount of money on the first date. If she appears to enjoy your company regardless of where you go, then she's a woman who doesn't expect or demand to be taken to expensive places. If she does, I guarantee you that she will be that way in every area of your relationship. She's a spender who expects you to spend a lot of money on her. (3.) Many women will see you as being a fool if you spend a large amount of money on the first date. And she'll more likely respect you if you do the opposite.

Behave overly eager and overly nice.

Women are not attracted to desperate, overly eager, and overly nice approaches. You have to have the opposite attitude while still showing a controlled amount of interest. In a way, you are teasing them by not being overly eager or overly nice. But you are a gentlemen and you move forward with her in a cool manner.

Don't confuse having the opposite attitude with being impolite. Being inattentive when she talks and checking out every woman who passes by is rude! You should be relaxed, confident, attentive, and visibly indifferent to attractive women who pass by.

Give her too much of their heart too soon.

When I say too soon, I am not talking about falling in love within the first 30 days of a relationship like some women are capable of doing. I'm talking about after the first 30-90 days when you can start to rely on having a woman in your life. It's at this point that you need to evaluate the situation and decide what you want because once you give her your full heart you've given up a certain measure of control. You've given up your ability to easily walk away if you decide she's not right for you and you've given her the ability to rip your heart out if she suddenly decides to be with another man. So take some time at this point to evaluate what you want to do with the relationship. Do you want to end it, maintain it, or develop it?

Yield to her mean approach to getting what she wants.

It's amazing how many women get this wrong. I love sharing this wise tale. "If a woman moans at her man long enough, he will eventually build her a house. But if she inspires him through respect and praise, he will build her a castle!" So true, isn't it. If you yield even once, you'll continue to receive this treatment until you take a stand and refuse to respond when a bitching strategy is used. It's best to confront this behavior early on by telling her you don't like to be bitched at and you will not respond to it.

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