5 Steps To Winning Back Ex Girlfriend

Allow me to guess. You and your girlfriend recently separated, you are in pain, lonely, desperate, miserable, and winning back ex girlfriend is your top priority. I am sure I can help. If you are committed to winning back ex girlfriend, the following instructions will help.

1. Relax and remember to breath.

I am saying the sky isn't falling. The earth will continue to spin. I know you are hurting, I get that. But you must not panic. Most people start calling constantly, texting their ex endlessly, showing up where they know they will be, begging, pleading, and promising the world. This never works, and if you are doing it, stop.

2. Accept responsibility to yourself.

This will not be easy. I am not saying you are 100 percent to blame. No one ever is. Accept what you did that was at fault. I don't want you to apologize, yet. By doing step 1 will permit you to gain some perspective on your girlfriends point of view. Realize and accept your part. Understand what you do that frustrates them. Winning back ex girlfriend absolutely requires this step.

3. Continue breathing.

Now that you realize the world won't end. And you have realized you were partly to blame in the break up. Now it is time to start winning back ex girlfriend. Read the instructions carefully. Tell your ex, about step one and two. Apologize for what your part was, and let them know you realize that you didn't appreciate them and took them for granted. (News flash, that is why they broke up with you, end of discussion.), apologize for your actions, and tell them you agree with the break up. This is where you start breathing again. This is not the time to go further, leave it at those three things, and end the conversation.

This is slightly manipulative, but they will never know it. Call it reverse psychology, if you want call it physics, but do it! You pull, they push. Sound like an argument yet? This allows you to push with them not against them. This is not trying to make them jealous, that will only infuriate them, not win them back.

4. Resume life.

If you can't do this, fake it and pretend. Do not avoid everyone you know. Call a buddy you haven't seen in forever. Make every one think you are over the break up. Give your ex some room to miss you, avoid contact if you can. If that can't be helped, Be like a friendly acquaintance, smile wave, and go on. Trust me, she is checking up on you, and she will notice your behavior. You need some time before you reunite with your ex,, three weeks to a month should be sufficient. I have another important flash, your ex misses you, give that enough time to work for you.

5. Make contact.

It's show time. Contacting them after some time has passed in the beginning. Invite them for lunch or simply coffee. This is not a date, just a short timed meeting, do not make this an all day or evening affair. Make this simple not complicated so they will agree to meet. At lunch, do not try to rekindle everything, and do not drudge the past. Act like you are having coffee with someone from the past. Do not be serious, keep the conversation light and fun. Now, you are ready to cement yourself back into their mind. Are you ready? Pretend they have something on the side of their mouth. Just make a motion with your finger to your mouth to politely tell them they have something on it. They will instantly grab their napkin, and wipe their mouth. Congratulations, you are a couple in your ex's mind.

Here is why. Telling someone with a motion that they have something on their face, would only be done by someone who loves the other person. You have never done it to a stranger have you. This is something you would only bother to do for someone you love. That one gesture subconsciously proved that you are a caring loving couple in her mind.

Comments? Questions? Email Here

© HowtoAdvice.com

How to Advice .com