If You Want to Keep Him, Don't Do This
If something is worth having, it's certainly worth fighting for.. That is especially true in the dating game. Why do women still believe in fairy tales and white knights and such?? A woman needs to understand some important facts before she decides to date a guy. Unfortunately, one false or misunderstood step could sabotage the whole relationship. Below are three usual blunders you must to avoid at the start of a connection if you desire to hang on to your man.
Error 1-- Not being your own person
Too many women forget where they stand in a relationship. You are numero uno. Placing yourself second in the relationship is a mistake. Too many women forget who they are, giving up any power they may have. If a relationship is worth the effort you're willing to put into it, you have to value what you bring to the table.
Mistake 2-- No matter how much you want to take care of him, he needs a girlfriend, not a mother
Why do so many women believe they have to look after their guy? Sure, we are the nurturing sex, it's embedded in our genes. Yet doing way too much for your man will at some point make your man feel like a baby. And in the end, he'll only resent you for your efforts. So permit him to take command. Let him drive, let him pick the restaurant, let him plan the date. It doesn't matter you are a much better motorist. Acknowledge that he'll get you to where you need to be. Never suggest his food for him when eating out. He's a grown guy and is perfectly able to make his very own selections. Don't ask him if he should get a coat. He is completely able to make that decision on his very own.
Got it? Love him like a lover, not a mother!
Error 3-- If you want it, go for it
You can wait until the cows come home if you think the man of your dreams is going to suddenly show up at your door. Do you have that much time? You have to go after exactly what you want. Sure this thought makes you nauseous and stressed. However keep that to yourself. No one needs to know that you are full of self- doubt. Mr. Wonderful is out there somewhere, all you have to do is get out there and find him. So go out and discover him, and have a blast while you're looking. Live your life to the ultimate.
The human mating dance is a complex thing, indeed. Unfortunately, we get most of our training from movies, TV and magazines. No wonder our expectations are so high and our disappointments so many. Life is real. Just keep these guidelines in mind and you'll lessen the chances of missing the one guy worth finding.
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