Keep Him Interested - Follow These Tips

So you have decided that you are done with the dating scene and that you want to move onto something a little more serious. How do you find a quality guy and keep him interested while submersed in a culture where the bar and club scenes can whisk him away as quickly as the bat of one of your pretty little eyelashes.

First Step - Love Yourself

One of the most effective ways to keep your guy into you is to love yourself. Unfortunately, the media has done a job on our self esteem, so we have a difficult time thinking of ourselves as attractive and alluring. We can get discouraged by what we see on TV and in the magazines.

By seeing yourself as attractive, men will get the memo. They'll start to see you as you see yourself. Want to know an attractive attribute - confidence. Loving your beauty and accepting your greatness will make you much more attractive to your guy, and he'll love you for those things as well.

Getting His Attention

While many girls have the problem of wondering how to keep a guy wanting more, you won't have the pleasure of this concern if you can't get his attention in the first place! Consider this. Do you really want to have to go out of your way to get the attention of a guy? Trust me, he'll notice you if he's interested, regardless of what you do. If you insist on taking matters into your own hands, and there is nothing wrong with this, then making brief eye contact and flashing a pleasant smile will go further than any other flirtatious gesture in the book.

Beyond the First Date - How to Keep Him Interested

Don't leave the dating failures of school years stuck in your brain when you are on a date as an adult. A grown man doesn't act like he did in grade school (hopefully), and he's not looking for the same things. He wants a more serious relationship with a woman, not a girl. They are attracted to you because of who you are, what your values are and what you are interested in.

If you want to keep a guy interested long after the first date has passed, you'll want to keep the focus on these non-physical qualities. Physical attraction is important, but sustaining a real relationship will take more than that to stand the test of time .

Don't give up on yourself, and don't give up on him. If you've made it past a few dates, he's definitely interested. Don't try to be anyone but your authentic self, but be the best you you can be. That way he'll see the best version of you there is.

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