4 Ways Boyfriends Get Lazy
A woman's apathetic, maternal nature is what is so lovely about her. It's also what can make her end up feeling like a doormat and make her completely neglect her own desires. Point out all the ways a man isn't satisfying a woman and she will come back at you with a prepared list of excuses for the guy. See, she's so understanding. But none of those excuses will keep her warm at night, take her on dates or tell her they love her. So women, it's time to sot making excuses for him.
He can't pay for EVERYthing
It's true that if your guy was going to pay for absolutely everything, he'd be broke fast. But, he shouldn't stop treating you completely! And that's the keyword: treating. He's not paying because you can't afford to but as a gesture of doing something nice for you! And that is something that no amount of time together should get in the way of happening.
He's just so busy
There's no excuse for your boyfriend to not get in touch for an entire day. Bizarre circumstances excluded obviously but, just going about his normal life at work and so on. he's got a second to text you. Even if it's in the bathroom. If he doesn't, it's not because he's busy. Everyone's busy. It's because you are not a top priority. I hated hearing my friend who is an extremely busy voice coach, giving up to 12 singing lessons a day, make this excuse for her boyfriend. I was like, "Hello! In the one minute you have between teaching kids how to sing, you'll call him. He can't do the same for you?"
He's just not good at communicating
Women state this like it's as simple as, "He just doesn't like ham." But more to the point, they say it like it's something the man has no control over. Don't ever, EVER believe that. Everyone can be a communicator if they put some effort in. Sometimes that effort goes as far as going to therapy but, if a man cares about you, he will put in that effort instead of making you put in the effort of dealing with a non-communicating relationship.
He's just not ready to…
Become monogamous, live with each other, meet the parents, marry and many other steps that women tend to be prepared to take before men, but will wait far too long for their partners to be ready to take. But be real: if it's mean to be, you're usually on the same page about those things. Or at least close.
About the Author
Vera Esther covers topics in luxury living, healthy habits and relationships. Her articles and blog posts have been published on dozens of websites and her unique titles such as "How to Tell If You're A Dating Addict" and "Improve Your Voice With Your Computer" (an article about the interactive site http://www.thesingingzone.com/ ) have grabbed the attention of various audiences.
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