HOW TO MAKR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP.

Tips for guy to make a relationship last long

1 You must be caring

2 Be a good advisor

3 Be their comforter

4 Lean how to love without fear

5 Know how to love

6 Be romantic

7 Play a passionate love

8 Lean and play love technique

9 Being faithful

All this tips are quite important for guys and should be applied in other to build succeful relationships with a girl; you would be the best relationship lover after.

You must be caring :> The most important thing in a relationship is being caring to your lover, there is nothing a girl cherish most than telling her friends how caring her guy is, the most of being caring you will always make sure that the girl is always comfortable before you think of any thing else, the most mistake guys do, is that, most of them do take their work or project to be more important than that of their girl friend, which is bad, they rather do it thinking that they are pleasing the girl, not knowing that the more they do it, it is driving the girl far miles away from them, making a part of the girl searching and a part of her would stay with them, which you can never enjoy in a relationship, full concentration must be giving to the girl, just think about this, in case when you stay with your girl, and she switch of her phone, then you ask her why, and she tell you cause it is a personal time with the both of you, and she need no disturbers, wont you be proud of her, just try and make that a habit, try doing it when you and your lover are on a quite time, I bet you she would always remember you for that.

Be a good advisor :> Most lover last with the kind of advise you do give them, some girls like their guy giving them advise, especially on life and natures, there are some advise you give to a girl, that when she goes and think about it, she goes crazy, and never think of doing anything stupid to destroy the relations you a trying to build, I know that there are some guys who do not know how to give advise to their fellow boys, not even thinking of giving one to a girl, it can be easy if you make research on http://www.google.com and make search on how to give advise, When you found out that you can give a girl an advise you would be proud of your relationship, and you would watch it grow healthy, a good advise makes a healthy relationship, I tell you, you cant just say you are in a relationship if you can’t make your relationship work, it is not also by dating, but avoiding heart break for both of you, which I don’t think is a good part in a relationship, be the best of advisor to your lady before some one else do it for you, some advise you give to a girl helps in solving her problems, which she might not tell you.

Be her comforter :> To love is simple but not that simple, it is not easy for a guy to comfort a girl, cause if you are doing it the wrong way, in which you might not know, you would mess every thing up, Sometime a girl can come to you, may be she is not your girl friend, then she tells you that she is having a particular problem, when she found out that you were able to comfort her and lift her soul up, I bet you, she would talk about you to her friends, it is a wonderful thing if a girl talks to her friends how perfect you are, she would even start having feelings for you. I guess there are times you hear a girl say who would lift me up when I’m down, they don’t mean when they fall on the ground, what they mean, is some one to comfort them, cause when you try to bring them up physically, they would also need some comfort to lift them spiritually, you hear them say who is going to be there when I’m sad, it does not mean you would just stand there looking at them why they cry or feel sad, they simply mean some one to comfort them. The act of being comforting put you in her memories forever, cause when they are far away from you, and they get disappointed or fail on a process of something, they think of you, wishing you were there to give them some comfort, you won’t know that, cause it would always be in their mind, my girl friend told me that, I am the best comforter to her life, that she would not in her life think of walking away from me, cause no one was ever going to be like me, this comfort thing is the best in a relationships always make sure you found out ways on how to be a good comforter to her.

Learn how to love without fear :> The most annoying thing a girl would ever heat you for, is this, when you are not man enough, the process of loving with out fear simply means that a guy need to love a girl with boldness, in this act, the guy can’t say any thing to the girl after their first yes of relationship, which is known as a boring moment, some girls need most of their guy to do the talking, in this case were the guy can’t, it tears the girl apart, and make the girl feel board, some guy’s feel if they talk too much, the girl would count them as a talkative, if what you are saying is interesting to the girl, she would not found you a talkative, some time you can bring out an interesting stories, Or better still both funny stories, I bet you, you would be the best partner she would always have, not until she say something then you respond.

DONT HUNT WHAT YOU CANT KILL

This simply means don’t ask a girl out; if you can’t take care of all the issues that would come your path. There are other rezones were a guy can’t kiss is girlfriend in the public or on the road, which is very bad, do you know in a relation ship, there is a little world, for the both of you lovers, any thing you do then, is not any one’s business, but that matters to you guys, you are never to look at the outside world, when you’ve step into your little world of your own, it’s now you and her, nothing really matter that moment, is worth that moment, if you are able to give your girlfriend a kiss in the public it simply means you love her so much and nothing more matters to you than her, this alone can make the girl go crazy for you. In no case must you ask her for permission to kiss her in public (depending), love seeks for any permission, once the YES is given to you, and the rest are left in your hands.

I’m not supposed to put this down but I would do!

LITTLE PROCEDURE TO FOLLOW :>

i Never you feel shy to ask her for any thing

i Don’t move too far from her friends, try to be close and act funny

i Try to be the man of every woman’s dreams

i Always make sure you surprise her

i Think of thins she like most and do it for her

i Make sure you know your girl color without asking, then give it to her, she love with surprise.

These little things I wrote up they would help you a little to get close and make a real love life relationship.

When two person are in love with each other, nothing is more imperative and delightful to them than giving: to give always and every thing , one’s thought one’s life, one’s body, and all that one gat: and to feel the gift and risk everything in order in other to be able to give more, still more. GUY DE MAUPASSANT

Know how to love :> What the eyes of love see’s is grater than that of the eyes without love!! Dr. W. Bearn Wolfe says: falling in love is truly more closely allied to madness than to love, for it is compounded chiefly of selfishness, possessiveness, illusion and delusion. Many people who “fall in love” seldom fall in love with flesh-and-blood men and women; they fall in love with single traits or qualities which superficially recall some subconscious symbols or totem. Knowing how to fall in love, is the best thing in a relationship, cause there are some people who are with a girl and think that it is love I would only call it, self love, this kind of love is loving some one for what is on a girl or his girl friend body, bet you, if that girl happen to fade out on that stuff , or what you love her for, you would want to get a new girl for your self, which is either causing the girl heart break, there are way love lies, to love some one naturally you don’t even care of asking her for things beyond her power, but instead do things beyond your own power to please her, that shows love, SEX is another thing for a guy play tool, now I have to bring in this matter, I found out since the discussion I have not bring in this matter, it is true that 95% percent of guy only have a relationship for sex alone, which is wrong, I’m not saying that a sex life is wrong, but you would have to limit it, you must know how to manage your sex life, don’t have a girl for so sex, this is the reason guys get jealous for just small thing the girl do, cause they’ve made the girl got addicted to sex, and she start felling, she would want to taste every thing concerning sex out side, you have to limit your sex life, make your sex life matured, if you really want to be in a real love relationship, except you know what is in your mind. Real love is getting ready to die for some one, even without knowing the reason for dying for that person, some would say I would I die for some one which I’m not sure, by tomorrow she would find some one new, I tell you, one thing is for sure, don’t regret on what you do or what you’ve don in a relationship, every thing you do count, again don’t count what you do to a relationship, cause what goes around comes around, Most rezones girls do cheat on a relationship, they found out that the guy don’t really love them the way they want, some guys are not perfect like the way I mention above, when a girl founds out that the guy is not fun and satisfying to be with, she start walking out from the relationship, some would ask, “what about the ones who are fun and satisfying to be with, what is the reason of the girl cheating on them”? Yes there is a saying that you cant cheat nature, it is either the guy is first cheated on her or he cheated on her and realized what he is doing then come back, to his senses, the girl might not know, that the guy is cheating on her, but as nature moves, or act on its own way, the girl start looking out, always make sure you heart is pure in a relationship, you have nothing to hide. There’s this article that says, it is not good to tell a girl about your past life, which I think is definatly wrong, it right you tell your girl about your past life in other to let loss of your bondage , cause some heart break or cheat are been cause by the things you did to ladies in the past, telling your girl is like coming up to an alter call for forgiveness, some time when you feel sorry for what you’ve done while saying it, I don’t think that it would hunt you back, so don’t go getting proud, telling your girl of the part of life you did to other girls or better still keeping it to your self I think it is very wrong, the repacaution would tell on you

Ye shall some day love beyond yourselves, so first lean loving! NIETZSCHE Be romantic :> A romantic guy is what most girl are dreaming of having To be romantic you should follow these; Try and lean how to look into her eyes with passion Try holding her hands when she is trying to come down from a particular stuff like a car or some thing When you hold her hands when walking, try to make her fell your romance by the way you hold her, Some guys think that it is only when you rub a girl on her body is what is called romance, they also think that it is only when you stimulate a girl into a sex mode, is what we called a romance, they may stand for romance but they are not completely a romance, because without romance it is not romance alone, not all girls like that to well. Romance can is a process of making a fell she’s been loved and not infatuated, romance can be played through many process, the process of romance can be by taking a girl out, some guy only take their girl out only when they are meeting them new, or when the girl is a new babe, when the relationship get old, they forget something like taking the girl out, this can make a girl start cheating outside the relationship, the taking of a girl out, is the most important romance that can ever be experienced in a relationship, the second type of romance which is the sexy romance is not a bad idea , cause it is also included in a relationship, any, in love must have a sexromance, so I did not say that sexy romance is a bad idea in a relationship, but the most interesting part of relationship site seeing, like going out for lunch, going out for dinner, actually in most romance the main aspect you are to consider, is to make sure you make the girl ( your babe ) smile when ever she think of the romantic pictures both of you had, it makes it had for a girl to think of cheating in a relationship, talkles of leaving you, it is important you mind the kind of romance you play, also in the aspect on the sexy part. There are some sexy romance you play with your girl, that when it lure to sex, it make her gain coitus, when she think of this it is hardly removable from the mind, just make sure that the romance life in you is every high, than that of the love you have for a lady, it is quite encouraging. Play a passionate love :> Most things about most guy is that they are not passionate, when we come to relationship, the so call passion is needed, “tell me a passionate relationship, and I would tell you a relationship who are madly in love”, a passionate relationship include most of the above listed on this article, I would say it include, kissing such as sexy romance, the power of love. When some one is so passionate about a girl, the guy can go extra miles, than when there is no passion in their love, a song writer knowing the real meaning of a passionate love said, “when a man loves a woman, he can spend his very last dam and hold on to what he need, even if she is bad he can’t see it, and any wrong thing she do, he is the last one to know, he can sleep under the rain to give her all the comfort she need, he would even turn is back on his best friend, just to make sure that no one turn his mind away from the girl he loves, or stands in between him and the girl he loves”. A guy in passion is ready to kill for a girl, some one would say how is all this possible, if you’ve never had a feeling that you can do a particular thing for a girl, like taking a risk to go and see her, passing through the fire, dark and lonely road, then, you are not in a real love, even if you feel some thing for her, some girls takes it for granted when they found out a guy is passionately in love with her, there is one thing for sure, it’s the guy who should take that surfing’s as nothing, cause there are times when you happen to show more passion that you don’t care on how she is treating you, on the aspect of the relationship, she would be guilty and decide to change, with this way you can also win a girl who is a player, or who is a fleeter. When a guy love a girl, and the girl don’t love him back in return, he end up by saying that they were not meant to be, which is completely wrong, because you did not do what was right, because you did not do what was right that is why the girl is not yours, if we have to follow the way you acted to the girl, and she turned us down, then we gave up by saying that the girl is not meant for us, then I think that all guy in the world would not have a date, or have a girl, as a guy, you are the guy, you need to take the courage be patient, and keep on walking up to her, always make sure you bring up the issue if possible every week or days. For guys who are kind of shy being with a girl, I think you should take the act of having many mere friends in females, not on the aspect of sexual relationship, some like a platonic friend (a friend that do not involve a sexual act), this would make you know how to get more in contact with a girl, cause most of the girl, don’t like guys who are incompetent. Make sure you gat your game. Lean how to play love technique :> This part is the main source holding and distorting a relationship. It is the task of the man to summon his whole power of self-command, to employ all his skill, to take all the care in his power that the woman may be, as one says, ‘ready’. The man who thinks only of his own gratification, and who leaves his partner ungratified is a brutal being, or, if not brutal, he is simply ignorant of the harm he is doing. GEORGE HIRTH On the aspect of love technique, it involve a love play, for instance a sexual play in getting in to sex, for both partners, I left this part to be explained as the last side for a guy, because the take it too important than any other thing in a relationship, which I don’t think is too good in a relationship cause not every girl enjoy sex relationship, cause they believe guys not to be trust worthy, “once they get what they want they are off”, so the other side should be most practice than this side. In love technique it is all about the sexual life of a relationship, a sexual life of relationship can hold or bring down a relationship depending on how it was been followed, under love technique we have the love making life style in which I don’t think every guy do understand. Most of the things you do during love play really matter a lot, some think that love making is that difficult, which I don’t think so, Bloch has writing: ‘it is a true saying that a woman who permit a man to kiss her will ultimately grant him complete possession’ that is to say when you get first possession you can get the rest if you rightly gat your game fix. Most of the complains of now-a –days we’ve gotten from girls is that they don’t get their complete satisfaction from their lovers, and this is the most reason some girls would want to try out side, found out if your lady is the type who love much sex, or like’s you to satisfy her, and try to fix the issue, I bet you there is so much in love you need to do if the another guy happens to be more perfect than you, so you, better be the best in your love play, cause it would cost you a lot if you are not perfect,, it very painful if you are having pleasure on something and you don’t get satisfied about that thing, you would, or, must find a way to make sure you are okay, that is the same thing for the girl. Have you observe, a girl would be making love with her date along the line she would tell him to stop, which I know annoys guys so much, some reason’s are because, the girl, knowing that her guy would stop along the line, when he get his satisfaction, so instead of her to be cheated she would prefer, both of them should be cheated, some times when you find your girl do that, try to find the reason, cause, I think it is a very bad thing to stop during intercourse, it simply means that she is not enjoy it, or, there is something running through her mind, or she is cheating on you, better still for what is been written above. I’m pretty sure that if you are having sex with your girl, make sure you ask her if she was satisfied, and be sure you get the right answer from her cause most babe would be shy to give the right answer, try and act as if you want to go back for another sex if she is satisfied she would not accept you with an open hands (as-in allowing you to come into her freely) but if she is not satisfied try and stay for about ten “10” minute then you go back to her. There is possibility for keriza (process of a prolonged sex) for more information on getting a copy on keriza, you can contact me on +2347064818787, my email address is lynce.dave@ymail.com, I’m sorry to announce this that it would cost you. Always make sure that you guy’s follow this tips in other to make a good relationship out of a girl. But if you feel as a guy you are moving successful in your relationship, and you are quite good in handling it, please just go on with you life, don’t mind what any articles would tell you, including mine, in order for you not to spoil your relationship, cause remember, not every thing that work Mr. A would also work for Mr. B, but if you feel that you still want to read more about article to enhance your knowledge, I don’t think there would be any thing wrong with it. Being faithful :> Becoming faithful, is what I see that most guy can’t cope on with, it is very painful if you found out that girl is cheating on you, some of this guys have all the satisfaction they have in a relationship, but still they look out side their relationship, if it is a spirit, you must have to see a pastor, cause once it gets out of hand, you cant handle it, only by the grace of God do I think that even a pastor would be able to handle the situation, try and be faithful to a partner, in order for you not to contact transmitted diseases, the best way to enjoy a relationship is by having one partner, just try and be patient, and found out that one to one relation ship is the best in ones life, just give it a try for one month with all this tips I gave you to apply on. I bet you, you would thank me for this.

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