Weapons of Mass Seduction

Weapons of Mass Seduction

In recent times more and more studies are being done that show the percentage of women using Sex Toys is increasing, along with the positive factors in doing so. Studies find that more women today are using sexual aids like sex toys to enhance their pleasure and achieve several different kinds of orgasms. The research has been around since 2004, when it was revealed at the second annual Women's Sexual Health State-Of-The-Art Series conference in conjunction with the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine.

Being twenty something and growing up in a generation that is relatively shameless and open about safe and happy sex lives, I do not find this study groundbreaking, but the number of people and couples that have yet to introduce sex toys into their lives is startling. Let's chat about the reasons someone would not be open to introducing sex toys and then move on to the positive aspects.

There are many reasons one wouldn't. I may not know where to start, and trust me I don't blame you guys, there is such a plethora of toys out there it is a bit overwhelming. But if the overall goal in a good healthy sex life is to enjoy the sex and excitement to the fullest, then why not incorporate the right sex toys for oneself or the couple?

There are softer, smaller, less intrusive toys, and on the other end of the spectrum; intense, larger and more commanding playthings. Either way getting over the mental aspect, and focusing purely on the physical satisfaction is enough of a motivation as far as I am considered.

Today's sex toys come in such a wide variety, and are delivered with such security and discretion that it is largely harmless if brought into the bedroom with respect and open communication. Then again a large incentive for the invention of sex toys was that a woman could get off without a partner. A woman can discover so much about her personal sexuality through a sex toy. Then to the privacy of her bedroom, with no fancy lingerie, or the dating jitters of sex with someone for the first time she could discover herself. This includes how she likes it, where it feels best, and what works with her to give her the most satisfaction; this could then be incorporated with someone else.

I have a couple of sex toys that I like very much. Personally, I am a fan of external stimulation, so nothing large for me, but a Pocket Rocket does the trick every time and can most definitely be used with a partner!

The bottom line when it comes to sex toys as far as I am concerned is this: you have nothing to lose, only an 'O' to gain! If you are single and a man, make your daily self stimulation more enjoyable with the lubrication of your choice, if you are using a toy with a woman, find out how she likes it, don't be afraid to communicate, and find something you can both enjoy, and finally, if you are a woman, lets get serious, bedside drawers aren't there for nothing, put it to use and have something to look forward to at the end of the day! So to all of you who haven't yet experimented, my conclusion is this: Sex Toys are healthy, pleasurable, and safe when used correctly, find the one that tickles your fancy and have some fun tonight!

Lila Gabrielle is an expert on all things that go down in the bedroom; particularly sex toys and great sex. Lila is the sexual health advisor forSensualSeductions

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