5 Reasons To Avoid Chat Up Lines

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by Sam Qam

A chat up line is a sentence or question presented usually from a male to female when they are keen to get to know them better in a romantic or sexual way. There are not many good reasons for using chat up lines, other than perhaps if you have trouble speaking to the opposite sex, if you think it is a really good one or if you are a comedian. <br/><br/> Aside from those reasons chat-up lines are 99% of the time a very bad idea. Here are a few reasons why you should never use them: <br/><br/> Girls See Them Coming <br/><br/> Unfortunately for you, if you use chat-up lines on a regular basis you probably haven't had much luck. The majority of these cheesy lines, such as "Is it hot in here…or is it just you?" will have be delivered to this person a dozen times. They will know the second half of your question or statement so won't even laugh if it is remotely funny. <br/><br/> You May Get A Slap <br/><br/> Many chat up lines are actually pretty offensive and will result in the delivery being followed up with a slap. When approaching women it is important to be yourself and honest, but if you approach with a line like "Do you have a mirror in your pocket? (Why?) Because I could see myself in your pants" then you will just come across as either arrogant or perverted. <br/><br/> Won't Take Your Seriously <br/><br/> One of the main things that a chat-up line does is imply that you have no imagination. After all why else would you use a gimmick instead of just saying hello and being yourself? You could deliver a line that falls on its face then realise that you really have something in common with this person, but since you have deliver this cheese, they may never take you seriously again. <br/><br/> Need to Practice <br/><br/> For some guys, it is not easy to speak to girls. They feel intimidated and inadequate and out on a limb when they approach someone they find attractive. Using chat-up lines disrupts any chance you have of actually practicing and learning how to speak to women. <br/><br/> It Might Work <br/><br/> A final reason for avoiding chat up lines is the fact that it might actually work, and then you will be in the presence of someone who finds chat-up lines funny or clever. This is someone you do not want to be with. <br/><br/> <br/><br/>

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Sam Qam is a dating UK player. He uses dating sites UK to find and seduce women.

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