People Come Into Our Lives To Teach Us
Copyright (c) 2011 Deidre Glendon
Have you ever wondered how much of your life has been spent on thinking or reacting to everything and everyone in your life? People have the tendency to identify themselves by what's going on outside of them. They seem to focus on others instead of focusing and developing their relationship within themself. It seems easier to point their finger at everyone else instead of taking responsibility for their own life which includes their feelings of self-love, self-worth and self-forgiveness. Working on oneself can be scary because it involves being truthful about your issues, ideas and perception. You can no longer play the role of the victim but must take responsibility for the roles that you are playing in your life and in the lives of others.
Everyone came to earth to learn lessons. We're all just doing the best that we can. It's our job not to take everything personally. It's not always about us. Give each other the space and the time to grow emotionally and spiritually. Try not to be so critical about others because you don't know what other people have experienced in their lives. Practice being compassionate, empathetic and understanding. Listen with your heart center and place your egocentric mind aside. Try not to compare yourself with others. Don't put yourself on a pedestal over and above everyone else. We're in this world together to help others and not to put people down. Therefore in our relationships with others we should be thankful for whatever lessons we have learned, no matter how difficult it may have been. Many times the more difficult the lesson is, the more impactful and steep is the learning curve. Be thankful for those people that have come into your life. They are all teachers of the lessons that you need to learn. Some are greater teachers than others. Be grateful for the experiences in life but even more grateful for the lessons that you have learned!
Live your life to the fullest. Be good to yourself and to others. Make the world a better place by having kinder thoughts and actions. Do your part. Keep your focus on positive energies. What you focus on expands. Don't lose faith. Trust that when you are good with yourself then you'll be good with what happens outside of yourself. Your perception is your reality. As you forgive yourself then you'll be more forgiving of others. This will enable you to concentrate on your own life's desires, hopes and dreams.
About the Author
Deidre Glendon, MEd: A death experience and helping others through intuitive insights led her to write The Healing Light, Trouble in Paradise and Light of Forgiveness. To see more excerpts on inner peace and happiness visit her website and click on Light of Forgiveness at http://wwwdeidreblog.blogspot.com
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