Dating Younger Women

I have a friend named John who frequently comes to me for dating advice. Recently divorced and in his young 40's he is about to start dating again

Like a lot of guys who read my material on how to get more dates, John is interested in younger women. Not THAT young, mind you. I'm talking about fun, beautiful women in their 20s and early 30s. That's the type John wants to date. He stays in good shape. He's a fun, outgoing guy. So why shouldn't he go after the women he desires most?

But John as a "sticking point" that he hits when he takes younger women out: he has a hard time closing the deal

John asked me a question the other day that I've been asked many time before:

"How do I get her up to my place?

Now we don't usually come to this part until the END of the night. The man has just spent a bunch of money on dinner, and spent two hours trying to make his best impression on the girl, and he's praying to God that she's going to AT LEAST give him with a goodnight kiss when this is all over.

But, more often than not, she will politely blow him off with a quick peck on the cheek, an awkward hug, or worst of all, a handshake.

Sometimes the guy will work up the courage to invite her back to his place, but it's very easy for a woman to say "no." (And there are lots of REASONS for her to say no.) She'll usually say something like, "I have to be up early tomorrow, I should just go home and get some sleep."

So, is there a trick you can use to all but GUARANTEE that women will agree to come back to your place at the end of the night?

Absolutey. I've got a move for this situation that I tested recently, and it's amazing. The first thing you need to understand is, women have a FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN. This is why it's so important to let her know that you are a safe, stable, and trustworthy guy. You can do this by giving hints during the conversation in a strategic way.

Now, when your objective is to bring her home at the end of a date… and she's never been to your place before… it is natural for her to feel some reluctance. This is because your place — your lifestyle — is UNKNOWN to her. Her female radar kicks in, and her defense comes up with reasons NOT to go there, such as…

* Your place might be filthy and unsanitary. * You might have some weirdo roommate who is going to creep her out. * You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn't tell her about. * You might live REALLY far away. When she goes home later, she's going to have a tough time finding her way back to her place.

Here is my point: you need to GET RID OF her worries, suspicions, and discomforts and make it SIMPLE for her to think, "Sure, going to your place sounds fine."

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