How to Please Your Woman - Intro and Chapter 1
Introduction
Most men think they're great lovers; or at least they say they think so. In truth, many men have no idea. They base the assessment of their performance on what women have said, or how they've acted in bed. This is not a great litmus test, and you probably already know why. Women can fake it. And, worse, women, sometimes, (definitely not always), will just "live with" bad, or mediocre, sex, if they think they are in love.
So, how is a man really supposed to know? This series of articles will tell you what to do, and how to know if it worked. It is an invaluable sorce of straightforward information - no beating around the bush, (so to speak). In this series you will receive details on how to please a woman, as clear, and concise, as "Car and Driver's" articles on how to do an oil change. Relax, and read on. The secrets are at your fingertips. Literally.
CHAPTER 1
The first thing you need to know about a woman, is, she's different from you. Before you toss this book across the room, to a chorus of, "duh"s, let me elaborate.
Most women, not all, (O.K. I'm going to stop saying, "not all," all the time, because you obviously get it by now that I realize women are not all the same!), do not have sex with the intention of satisfying a painful desire. They don't. Men, often, do have sex with the intention of exorcising a maddening need from their bodies. This is probably more true for younger men, or for men who haven't been active in a while - but, it is, frequently true of men of all ages. Women have sex for the opposite reason. They are not getting rid of something, they are creating something. (I think the differing physical attributes of both sexes bear this out.For a man to really please his partner, he needs to help create an environment in which to become aroused, and to have an orgasm.
Although there are some guidelines as to how to do this, please do not make the mistake of buying into one of those, "5 Steps to Pleasing a Woman," type articles. For one thing, your lover with know right away if you are going through, "steps," and for another, it won't work. Why? Because, once again, it is a man trying to, "get something over with," by hitting all the appropriate buttons. This is not paint by number! You cannot just fill in the blanks. It is more like real painting, real art. You start with nothing, and keep adding, until it looks and feels right; until you've created art, not finished an assignment! Let's get more detailed.
About the Author
A.E. Bates is relationship coach, and author of adult stories. For more information: http://stores.shop.ebay.com/Audio-Erotica__W0QQ_armrsZ1
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