Advice and Tips for Teen Singles Dating Seniors
Dating a person, much older than oneself can be a difficult proposition.
Human sexual orientation is strange. Though sex is for procreation, the biggest thrust to sexual propagation comes from the pleasure sex generates. As per Darwin’s hypothesis, sex should take place between those who are able to transfer the best genetic characteristics to the new born. But, the human mind is strange and unpredictable a relationship between a teen and a senior over 50 is possible on this planet. Why not?
When as a young single into teen dating (eighteen+), you wish to go dating seniors, then here are few things you should remember. Read on…
First, do not be embarrassed, if you have a strong urge to go dating older persons for then you will. Anyway, some of the older experienced persons are treat to be with for love relationship or sex. They are capable of delivering what peers can rarely deliver. Hence dating mature singles, couples, swinger, gay and lesbian is norm for many.
It is obvious that when dating senior single the bend would be towards sex and less towards love, romance and much less towards long-term relationship, keeping the age gap in mind. So if you are innocently attracted towards a senior or have developed a crush for one, be careful! You are in for trouble, as you can be sexually abused and or face embarrassment.
However, if you are willfully considering senior dating than only you should go about it. However, keep the following things in mind:
The older person you are dating may be married. If he is a married person then he will always have family consideration in mind. You should stay out of his family circumstances and enjoy relationship outside it. That means keep jealousy at bay as the senior may often think or talk of his partner, if they are not estranged couple i.e. Family responsibilities come in the way sometimes, you should take it gracefully. Envy will prevent fluent relationship and mar your happiness. As much as you and your partner may justify the relationship there should be no home breaking. Prefer to date senior single if you cannot handle all this.
Dating mature can be sexually very satisfying because of experience but the frequency may not be as much as you desire. Hence, do not be very demanding. Older people have loads of knowledge to disburse so learn to enjoy their company. They may be financially more capable but then dating somebody for money is akin to prostitution. Enjoy the comforts but do not be interested in money. You are in for relationship not for economical dependency.
Go for discreet dating, if you feel embarrassed in his company in presence of your friends and relative. However, do not feel embarrassed if you genuinely like the person. You are dating older person because you like it that way and your conscious accepts it. So care hell! If relationship furthers and seems promising, and if you have considered all the factors then go ahead and be tangled in matrimonial alliance.
If dating mature is not your cup of tea, go find a single of your own age group.
Those who express disapproval at such relationships should remember. “Love is blind”.
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Hello, I am John Waltzer. I am a freelance writer and web designer. I have published number of article online on Internet. I have written on teen dating and senior dating ………….human sexuality, dating in general and relationship.
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