Single Parents Dating: The Three Important Guide To Having A Well Balanced Love Life

Many times, our human nature gets the best of us, in our relationships, in our work, with almost everything. To what degree are we willing to get a well balanced relationship if we keep on comparing our lives with others?

The feeling of envy can be destructive and if you have a partner, can be deteriorating to your relationship. But you can turn it around so that it can be helpful and motivational. How? You can make use of it though, to make you realise that you have things to change about you and your situation.

What we are trying to say to you is that you take the time to know and understand the roots of your envy and insecurities. Identify what your needs are and how they are fulfilled so that it's in a balance in your life. You shouldn't ditch your partner right away and go in pursuit of the single life or get into a relationship with first willing person your meet.

1. Life is not a movie. Life is not a film that you just get to sit down and wait for things unfold before you. If you like watching romantic chick flicks, these can very well paint you a rose-tinted image on how a relationship should be. Remember that depressing and feeling agitated over your partner; just because he wouldn't run after a bus to stop you, take you to trips abroad or dance in the pouring rain with you. If it marks a point when you believe that your partner doesn't give you importance because he can't sacrifice his Xbox for you; every other girl has been thinking the same thing. Life is real, movies only last for 2 or 3 hours at most. If you want a happy ever after, don't make your life rotate around movies; live outside it and make it real.

2. Remember that everybody fights. During those wonderful times when you have just established the relationship; your partner seems to be the best. It's all about pleasing you and win you over. But now as you become more familiar and comfortable with each other, these small bickering can turn into huge fights. That's how a relationship will progress, of course you argue, but you would know better.

3. Remember your status. When you have been single for a while, be patient. Remember that there is someone out there meant for you. Enjoy being single and pamper yourself while you're at it. Get to know yourself more before you share your life with someone. If you're in a relationship then ask yourself why you are there, why you chose them. What makes him attached and attracted to you? And what makes him attracted to you? Focus on the times where you are happy and why you are still together. Get yourself the right ideas about love and romance and not just mainly from books and novels- but the real things; your experiences in your past.

When you find yourself getting envious about others, look deep down in yourself. Dig down until you can find that things you wish to be doing- and then do it! Turn envy around and use it as a tool so that you can build yourself better. Envy is a good measuring tool, a barometer in which you can measure all your secret yearnings. Use this as a catalyst and make positive changes in your life until you are content.

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