5 Rules That Will Save Your Marriage
There are guidelines to follow if you want to save your marriage. Marriage is more than just a game in life but nevertheless married couples enter the playing field with no practical experience or any idea of the rules.
Some couples master the rules faster than others. Some come to a decision they don't like the game at all and call it a day. Others carry on playing the game even though they don't like it and are not having any fun at all. They keep on rolling the dice hoping that their luck will change and the game will get better. Let's have a look at 5 rules that can save your marriage.
1. Be Tolerant.
It's simple to see the good in somebody providing they are doing what you like; but also make the effort to be tolerant of the things that irritate you and see them as not as faults but special personality characteristics. Love the faults as well as the benefits.
2. Be a Space Giver.
This means not only having separate wardrobes but allow each other much needed private time. Being with someone you love all the time is challenging. This applies to not only at home but with friends as well. Incidentally, with regards to the space in the wardrobes, keep yours tidy.
3. Go Away Together.
It's difficult to get the time to take a holiday break in a busy marriage. But a different environment can really save your marriage by relighting the spark that may be fading. And memories you have from your trip can be the stuff that keeps you stuck together while life's other pressures try to draw you apart.
4. Compare Opinions. Don't Argue.
Arguments will arise in any relationship but if you want to save your marriage be respectful of your partner's opinion. If the argument gets heated and its late in the day, it may be best to go to bed and sleep on it. An old saying recommends that you to never go to bed angry but things generally look better in the morning. Never give an ultimatum unless you want it to be taken. Give consideration to your partner's likes and dislikes and you'll have fewer arguments.
5. Don't Forget The Romance.
The romance and intimacy is not just for when you are newlyweds. Think back to what you did when you began our relationship and start to do it again. You most likely swapped little presents, went for walks together and enjoyed romantic dinner dates. You might think you know every little thing about your husband or wife and if that is the case, why aren't they happy? Why aren't you happy?
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