Clitoral Stimulation:The Ins And Outs Of Clitoral Stimulation

The clitoris is the female sexual organ situated just above the vagina. It is responsible for most of the sexual pleasure enjoyed by women. This article explores some of the ways in which clitoral stimulation is experienced.

Just as every face is different, every penis and every fingerprint unique, so too every clitoris has its unique character. Some are bigger than others, some more sensitive, some shy and retiring and others thrusting and aggressive. Each woman has her own sexual characteristics and each woman will experience different degrees of sexual satisfaction from clitoral stimulation. It will depend in part on the features of her clitoris, and the way she chooses to stimulate it.

How many women choose to masturbate using their hands may be forever a mystery. Certainly it is the most economical and discrete method, but like male masturbation, it is probably only partially satisfying.

The best thing about self masturbation is that it can be done in private in a way that suits the woman who best knows her own clitoris. She can slide her hand down slowly over her tummy, gently touching the hood over her clitoris with just the right speed and pressure that she knows she needs. But therein lies the rub. Familiarity does not always breed satisfaction, and even though she knows what she needs, do-it-yourself sexual excitement may seem to lack a partner.

Of course the average man is notoriously ignorant and insensitive when it comes to understanding clitoral stimulation. Obsessed with his own pleasure he grunts and groans his way to orgasm, intent on driving in his seed, as far as he can, oblivious of the sensitive little pearl that may be yearning to be touched. The woman who has wished for a partner might feel, all too often, that getting a man was not worth the candle, and turn to other pursuits.

Some sports that offer covert comfort for the clitoris gain passionate adherents. Sitting astride the pillions of motor bikes, clinging to the backs of be-whiskered bikers, girls often fail to hide the dreamy satisfaction that oozes from every line of their bodies. An ordinary cycle saddle can also be manoeuvred to provide some sharp pleasure, but this cannot be shared with a partner, even when riding tandem.

Horse riding may be the ideal sport for clitoral satisfaction. Sitting astride a heaving stallion with his power nicely controlled in her fingers the teenage girl is in her element. Beneath her a mighty animal heaves while her clitoris is pressed by the warm sweat of his backbone. The stimulation travels right through her inner thighs and into the deep recesses of her body where the clitoris extends. The secret pleasure of the whole experience lies in the fact that the taboo of clitoral stimulation takes place as often as not in the innocent public gaze.

Sadly though, not everyone can afford to keep a horse, or the time to ride it. So the ordinary working girl might have to resort to a sex shop, taking comfort in the fact that dildos were discovered in the ruins of Pompei, and obviously used for clitoral stimulation before the earthquake. The electric battery has certainly led to improvements in dildo manufacture and online stores enable discreet purchases. Without a blush a girl can get a clitapillar, or a rabbit shaped electronic vibrator delivered in a plain unmarked envelope. And she may feel that she does not really need an impatient panting male partner with halitosis, when she can buy the Velvet Touch Clit Licker with two AA batteries.

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