You can avoid disappointment
Learn to respect your parents. Whether you pray with the God or not, learn to respect the living Gods, they are none other, they are your parents.
You may pray with the God minute-by-minute, hour-by- hour, day by day, but if you failed to respect your parents then whatever prayer you do in this world is utter waste and you won't get any benefit out of your prayer.
You are liable to your parents during your full lifetime.
Without them you couldn’t have seen this beautiful world, amazing peoples, interesting life, etc.
You couldn’t excel in your field of profession unless you recognize and respect your parents.
Without their blessings you could not become an expert in any field.
Of course no parent would curse his or her children even if they did wrong to them.
But in real life we have seen so many elderly peoples are seeking asylum in the old age homes. Is these elderly peoples don't have any relations or they don't have any family.
Their sons and daughters feel that they are burden to them, consider their advise, their presence as nuisance to them.
These men and women would never think, how many nights their parents lost their sleep to take care of them when they were young.
The children should think the advise of their parents are nothing but their experiences and only for their welfare.
Parents, advise their children out of fear and nothing should happen to them out of any cause.
But in reality no children likes any advise especially from the parents. At the same time they don’t mind about to accept the same advise from their friends or whom they are closely intimated.
But one thing all these sons and daughters are often forgot. They are also marching towards the age, where their parents already marched.
They forget that they are indirectly teaching to their children how they should behave with their parents.
They are indirectly teaching their children how they should be sent out to old age homes.
If this is the case found anywhere, then what is the remedy available or what are the precautionary step every parent should take.
Every parent should learn to live within his/her own resources and make it a habit of savings of some portion of their earnings for their old age.
Provide all the needs of your family members within your own resources, after reserving some amount as compulsory savings for your future.
Never enter into any debt trap for the purpose of providing any amenities to your family members.
You won't be recognized at any time by any body you have strained yourself for their welfare.
You keep some considerable amount in your bank account and build up that amount for your future. Never part that amount to any body during your lifetime. Keep that amount as secured and timely helping deposit.
Do your commitment to your family but within your resources and not managing from outside resources like debt.
Never expect from your children that they will recognize your commitment to them and help you and support you when you are in desperate need.
You can avoid disappointments if you limit your expectations.
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