G Spot and Male Sexual Response

G Spot and Male Sexual Response. in this article you will learn all about Male sexual response and some topics on G Spot.

In this sex manuals that have been written by Gabrielle Moore include some basic information about the g spot. If you’re looking for more detailed information and you’re the kind of person who likes to read about the history and politics of sexuality, this article will offer you more than a passing reference to how to find your g spot and what it might feel like (although most of them do that too!)

Male Sexual Response

While this article is about female orgasms, I think it's important for you to understand your own sexual response cycle as well. When you understand the differences between how you and your partner respond to sexual stimuli – both physical and mental – then it will help prepare you for assisting your partner in reaching orgasm. Remember the four stages – excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution – are the same for you as they are for your partner. The only difference is in the physical signs of each stage and how this prepares your body for sexual intercourse.

• Stage 1 – Excitement

• One of the bonuses for women is that when their signs of physical arousal are less noticeable than those of a man. Below are the three main signs of sexual excitement in males:

• The testes begin to elevate

• The skin around the scrotum becomes thicker and more tense

• The penis becomes increasingly erect

• Because men are stimulated visually, they often are easier to arouse than women. They can reach this stage by watching sexual scenes on television, looking at an attractive woman on the street, touching their partner in a non-sexual way, etc.

• Some men wrongly believe that if they are aroused they must have sex. That's not the case. Arousal does not have to lead to sex or even masturbation. If you do not reach the second stage, then your erection and the other signs of arousal will diminish and will return to normal.

• Stage 2 – Plateau

• As with women, this stage is marked by growing sexual tension.

The desire for intercourse becomes great. In fact, the further into this stage you go the less likely it is that your erection will go away on its own. Below are some other physical signs of this stage: • The testes reach their highest point of elevation and maintain that position

• The Cowper's glands become activated and begin releasing seminal fluid through the tip of the penis. This is usually a clear fluid which helps lubricate the vagina during intercourse and prepares the urethra for semen

• The testes become fully engorged and may grow as much as 50%

• The penis's corona becomes engorged with blood

• Men do not have to reach this stage to be ready for sexual intercourse. In fact, even before the penis is fully erect, men are ready for intercourse. This is a definite difference between the genders.

• If a man does not reach the next stage, however, he can experience discomfort. Not only will the penis stay erect, but he may also experience what is referred to as “blue balls” meaning the blood in his testes will not return to the rest of his body so they remain engorged. Although this may not be the best feeling in the world, it is not as horrible or painful as some men have made it seem in order to pressure their partners into “going all the way.” Masturbation would be just as good a cure as sexual intercourse.

• Stage 3 – Orgasm

• In men, this stage is actually divided into two parts, so we'll talk about each of them separately.

• Emission – At this point, all of the fluids from different parts of your reproductive organs are collecting at the end of the urethra. This creates a feeling of heaviness which men recognize as the signal of imminent orgasm.

• Expulsion – A short time after the seminal fluid is collected, contractions begin within the penis which cause ejaculation. These contractions, like those of women, are a physical sign of orgasm. They also tend to occur throughout the pelvic area for men, as well as for women.

• Because a man's orgasm occurs in two separate stages, he has a little more control over the process than a woman does. That's important because if you are at the emission stage when your partner is not quite ready for an orgasm, you can hold off on ejaculating and completing your orgasm. It isn't easy, but we'll talk about a few ways you can accomplish this in the next article.

• The other important thing to remember is that after you ejaculate your penis will quickly lose its erection. By quickly, I mean one to two minutes tops that means you have to make sure your partner is where she needs to be before you let go.

• Stage 4 – Resolution

• During this stage, the penis goes back to non-erect size and all of the blood in the testes returns to the rest of the body.

• Men also have what is known as a refractory period, which means that for a certain time he will not be able to achieve another erection. That period of time varies from as little as two minutes to as long as two weeks. On average, as a man ages his refractory period also becomes extended.

• As I mentioned earlier, if you do not reach stage three then you may have difficulty achieving this stage as well.

• Multiple Orgasms & Sexual Response Cycle

• As we discussed earlier, women are able to experience multiple orgasms fairly easily. Because they don't have to go back through the cycle and because they do not have a refractory period, they can have several orgasms in a row with the right stimulation.

• Until recently, most men believed they could not have multiple orgasms because of the refractory period but that's no longer held as popular wisdom.

• Because orgasm and ejaculation are two separate events in your body which just occur close together, you can train your body to orgasm without ejaculating. This is also important because if you can train yourself to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating you'll also be training yourself to last longer during sex for your partner so you can both have multiple orgasms together.

• The trick to doing this is by exercising your Pubococcygeus (PC) muscle. By contracting this muscle regularly, you'll be able to control it more effectively. That control will allow you to stop yourself from ejaculating. If you're not sure how to contract your PC muscle, the next time you urinate try stopping the flow several times. The muscle which stops your urination is the PC muscle.

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