You Can Be The Guy That All The Cool Girls Want To Be With: Part 1

Have you ever felt like you just can't attract and keep the scorching hot chicks that other guys seem to always have as arm candy? Or maybe you want a permanent relationship with a kind, caring, giving, and fun girl forever, and you're beginning to wonder if you'll ever meet her - and if you do meet her, will she like you?

Either way (or anything in between), you can do it! This article is number 1 in a series of 10 articles that will make it easy for you to attract and keep the woman (or women) you want.

So what's first?

When a woman is first getting to know you, she is almost always trying to picture a future with you - it's just the way women are. So it's up to you to show her a guy who is up on current happenings, is interested in many things, and is enthusiastic about several different subjects.

Being "up," interested, and enthusiastic means you are curious about the world around you, and you are always learning new things. Relax, you don't have to learn a couple of new languages or start working on a Ph.D. in medieval philosophies!

You just need an interesting topic of conversation you can easily talk about on any day - it could be a new band you've just heard about, a funky movie at the "artsy" theater, an interesting topic of current news, a new TV show, etc. It can even be celebrity gossip - most younger women are very current on what's going on with various celebrities, especially if there is some scandal or relationship issues being publicized.

You, of course, can continue to be a sports nut, car freak, or computer geek. Just be aware that these aren't hot topics with a lot of women, so be ready with a couple of conversation items that are more likely to be interesting to a hot girl.

Another great source of conversation topics is current health trends. Subscribe to a fitness or men's health magazine - you'll always have "happening" things to talk about - new vitamin supplement, diet or exercise trend, etc. Being able to knowledgeably talk about these things tells a woman that you are concerned about health and that you are interested in bettering yourself. Women spend a lot of time taking care of themselves, and they are drawn to a guy who takes care of himself and appreciates that she does the same.

The big idea here is to be able to speak your mind on a variety of topics that are interesting to women - it makes you look inquisitive, interested (thus, interesting), and well-rounded.

You'll love this next idea.

Always carry a small pad of paper and pen or pencil around with you. If a girl mentions a new TV show, boutique, etc., don't just nod vaguely and say something dorky like, "That sounds kind of cool." Instead, get out your pad and pencil, and say, "That sounds really interesting - let me write it down and check it out. What's your phone number? I'll text you and let you know how my opinion about it compares to yours."

Cool or what? You've just shown her that her opinion is valuable enough to you to write down what she's saying and follow up on it. Plus, you've just asked for her phone number in a perfectly casual, natural way. Big improvement over a lame "that sounds cool."

Women are drawn to men who are always open to learning something new - or, better yet - teaching them something new. Use these strategies, and other guys will be wondering how it is that you have all the coolest girls hanging around you.

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