3 Steps On How To Make Proper Eye Contact With Women...and Double Your Success Rate

The 3-Minute Rule has probably ruined more guys' chances with women than it has ever helped. Don't know what the 3-Minute Rule is? It states that you must approach a chick within the first 3 minutes of her or you entering a room or your chances to score with her are down to zero. While I don't fully believe in this rule, there is one part of it that I firmly believe in: making immediate eye contact.

Because most guys are brainwashed by the 3-Minute Rule, they tend to rush into their approach, and as a result, don't have their GAME tight. They get up to a girl in a near sweat, and try to pull a line out of their back pocket as fast as they can. Many panic and say something that basically kills their shot at the girl. Or they are so focused on the timing that when they finally get their chance, they let it slip between their fingers because they don't know what to do next. The time limit may make them feel that the goal is getting to the girl in time, rather than having a conversation with her or getting her number.

The intentions of the 3-minute rule were good, because it forced you to get off your ass and do something about your desire. If you saw a hot girl enter the room, you probably would have waited the whole night before you approached her. And by that time you got enough courage to talk to her, another guy would have swooped in and taken your spot. But it had its flaws.

The most important aspect of the 3-Minute Rule that I definitely agree with is eye contact. Eye contact is the most powerful way in which you can communicate your interest in a girl from a distance. If you can make eye contact, and hold it, it tells the girl that you have confidence, high self esteem, and know what you want and will do what it takes to get it.

Here are 3 reasons why eye contact is so key:

1. Communicates interest in girl from a distance

2. Conveys confidence

3. Sets the stage for your approach

Now, don't get eye contact mixed up with a freakish stare-down. You might just scare her away if you do that. Instead, just casually look over, catch her eye momentarily, then get a knowing smile on your face that reveals that you like what you saw. Then break off contact and continue whatever it was you were doing.

More than 3 minutes have passed, and if you are following the 3 minute rule, your chances of nabbing the girl have just gone down the drain. But here is where I disagree with the rule. Making eye contact with her has already established your interest in her. If you executed correctly, she should have felt the confidence that you exude. So if even 15 minutes have passed, the lasting effect of the initial eye contact will still be with her, and it would be very appropriate for you to approach her.

But don't hesitate, as there is such a thing as waiting too long. Like the saying goes, "the early bird gets the worm." That holds true in this situation. If you see a girl, it is imperative that you send her the signals by making eye contact with her. After that, you have properly set yourself up to make the approach.

Sometimes it is even better to make a second or third eye contact. This really depends on the situation, though. If you are in a cozy bar, then multiple eye contacts before you approach the girl is appropriate. If you were in a larger venue, you might not see the girl again, especially if she hits the dance floor with her group of friends.

If you are going to go the way of multiple eye contacts, then you must progress with each incident. The first eye contact may end with you flashing her a small smile. But then you need to up the ante for the subsequent contacts. Maybe nod slightly or give her a bigger smile. If she responds in a similar manner, then she's giving you the green light to go talk to her.

Now you know why eye contact is so important. It is the best way to communicate your interest from a distance, and conveys confidence in the process. After doing so, you are now set up to approach the girl. Now the rest is up to you!

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