Women! How You Can Get Back With Your Ex
Break ups can be tough, whether it’s you that initiated the break up or the other way around. There are several things to consider and things to do and definitely not to do when you are trying to win back your ex.
First of all you need to answer the following questions.
What caused the break up? Was this a healthy relationship? If you were to get back together how would things change? Would they even change? Do you believe that you are strong enough to change? Could they handle it as well?
Do not try to get back into a relationship if your partner was abusive. Move on and remember that you deserve someone who is better that will treat you the right way. However, stick to the to-do lists without intentions to get back together.
There are a lot of things consider when deciding whether or not getting back together with your ex is a good choice. There are plenty of things not to do when trying to get your ex back.
Things not to do!
1. Do not call, text, email, or anything of the sort to your ex asking them what they are doing or if they want to get together to talk about things. This will annoy them and give them a better reason to ignore you. Chances are you have already talked; consider what your ex’s needs are. They will most likely need space and time to themselves.
2. Do not pity yourself and mope around all day
3. Don’t try to get yourself in situations where you will be at the same place as your ex
Things to do!
1. Keep yourself busy, even though times are difficult and you would rather do nothing, get out of the house. Now is the time to reflect on things and do things to better your inter being. Start working out. This will make you feel good and look good!
2. Be social. Get out there and hang out with friends you haven’t seen in a while and friends you may have forgotten about during your relationship. Enjoy yourself and your friends. By hanging out with old friends you will create a larger social network.
3. Find new hobbies, read a book even clean! Anything that will improve yourself
Follow these steps and keep yourself busy, chances are if your ex is still in love with you they will notice the changes you have made and that you are an independent individual. When you do talk keep it casual and work through it slow, don’t bring up the past. Try to be that person they know and fell in love with in the beginning. Don’t try and jump back into the relationship. Use this time off for your advantage and enjoy every minute of it.
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