Add Oomph With Sexy Costume Lingerie

If you have been married for 20+ years like me, your love life is nil. And it's not because you don't love your husband, it's just life happened. Between your work schedule and children, you and your partner might have misplaced that sizzle you had when you first set eyes on each other. You remember that initial kiss and the first time you touched each other. The fact that you always wanted to be together and that you could not keep your hands off of each other. Yep..those were the days. But those days do not have to be behind you. Let's face it, you most likely won't have that same feeling you had when you first meet and your relationship maybe boring, but you can regain some of that spark. And for some of us, the past you have together may make it so much sweeter. Losing that spark happens to the best of us, whether we met a few months ago or longer. It just happens; you get lured into a regular pattern and then the spark is gone. Let's examine the different ways we can inject a bit of zing to that spark that dissapeared.

There are a few ways to do this without having to sell an arm and a leg. You and your partner can set a date without the kids. You can also enjoy some quality time together taking a walk, on the boardwalk or doing just about anything both of you love that you have not done in a while. Eventually,unless disaster strikes, we end up back home and this is where you can literally make things happen. Remember spending time together on date night is setting the mood for better things to happen.

Men are visional creatures, always have been and always will be. Men imagine comparably the way women do but with a difference. Most women dream about love and being intimate with your partner is the emotional aspect of it. Most men, on the other hand look at being intimate as a mechanism and that process is much better with someone they love. Most men would not even think of cheating on their wives, but they don't have the identical romantic requirement that women do. Like the old saying goes, men are dogs.

Now, let's focus on adding a little oomph! to our mundane love life. Again, you need to keep in mind that men are visional creatures, so what better way to add spark to your love life with sexy costume lingerie? Sexy costume lingerie is the perfect boost and it's cheap to boot. I know, I know, I've said it myself. I'm too old and out of shape for this. There must be some other way. The spark that you are trying to achieve is the spark you see in his eyes when you wear something slinky and sexy. It's that excited look he gets when he captures a glimpse of you in that sensuous something. I'm not talking about your regular run of the mill lingerie; I am talking about sexy lingerie as a costume.

Set the ambience ladies, dress as a sexy nurse, a sexy police officer or better yet a French maid! The great thing about sexy costume lingerie is that it does not reveal as much skin as you might think and can hide problem areas. And I have always made a point of telling you ladies to make sure you complete the look by fixing your hair, applying make-up and a pair of classic pumps. If this is too embarrassing for some of you, lower the lights and light some candles. Having a dim room does wonders for our inhibitions. Most men love to see their partners in beautiful sexy costume lingerie. Not only would it be fun for him, but it can be fun for you as well. You may like it if you try.

There are lingerie stores that sell sexy costume lingerie, but if you are like me, the thought of walking into these stores is slightly embarrassing to say the least. Some of you may not have a problem with that, in which case, more power to you. The great thing about purchasing from a retail establishment is you can try it on, I think. Online stores offer a wider range to choose from, but it has its draw back. The size may run from one extreme to the other, too small or too large. The way it is made and the material may be another issue. When purchasing online, make sure that you get free shipping and the return policy is generous. When planning a special night, keep in mind the number of days it takes to receive items in and the fact that you may want to return it.

As always ladies, have fun.

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