Young Children Haircut Issues
As former cosmetologist I've seen much in regards to haircuts on young children, and the battles that can ensue for both child and parent. Below I've written some guidelines to assist parents and kids through the maze in the easiest possible methold.
It's critcal that the hair cutting experience is a good experience for the child, especially the first few cuts. Consider how many adults hate going to the dentist because of traumtic early experiences, do everything possible to avoid that situation. Keep a bigger life perspective. It is only hair, and it will grow, even if they get a terrible haircut. Parents might try to lower their expectations in the very young years, and not attempt complex haircuts. Many times just cutting some length off the hair, and basic shaping around face can do wonders.
Buzz cuts or clipper cuts, are generally very hard for kids because the razor / shears can be a frightening experience. Be mindful that it's loud, and it's right close to their tender ears, making the sound even more pronounced. Avoid those types of cuts until their a bit older, and are more relaxed with basic cuts first.
Do not physically pressure, or allow anyone else to forcibly hold your child's head still. That can produce very negative emotions for them and has the potential to instill a bad memory, and making the next cut even worse most likely. Some kids bribery with candy or a special treat works well, with the condition that they sit still during the haircut. For some children this won't work, as it's not enough. Consider giving the child an object or toy to keep hands busy during the haircut, perhaps a fun science or technology gadget, or hand held video game.
Try to time the haircut around the child's most quiet time of the time. Be mindful to their high energy times of the day, and avoid haircuts in that duration. Perhaps take them to a park half hour or so, before a haircut and let them really run and burn off some energy. Another idea might be a short car trip to help them settle.
If your child is particularly struggles with haircuts in a big way, it might prove most effective to either cut his or her hair at home, either by teaching yourself, or else employ someone you know would be willing to come to your home. Sometimes a familiar surrounding will help. Perhaps put a movie on that they can watch to distract them during the cut.
For the person doing the haircut, he or she should get it finished, as quickly as possible (of course keeping safety in mind as well). They should speak to the child in gentle tones, and remain calm themselves. Praise the child on how great they are doing, and affirm that it'll only take short amount of time.
After the haircut, brag to family and anyone who will listen, in the presences of the child. about how great they did at having their hair cut. Try sharing good haircut stories. You'll want to create a warm experience to reinforce that message.
If all these things fail and you have one of those rare kids still in total hysterics, think about waiting more time before attempting again, like a few weeks. It's not the end of the world if their hair gets too long. Remember children change dramatically in stages, the next attempt could be totally successful just because they are in a new stage. By making certain each experience is a warm one, your youngster will be able to handle more advanced haircuts, with less problems for both of you. Before you know it, it'll be no issue at all.
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