How to Be a Cool Parent Without Losing the Respect of Your Kids


by William Jason

Many parents struggle with trying to be the ideal parents to their kids. Of course, we all know how important it is to let kids know we're in charge, however some parents struggle to create the perfect balance of authority and friendship with their kids.

It is completely possible to be a "cool friend" to your kids and maintaining the authority that enforces respect from them. Here are some adjustments you could make to help strike the perfect balance between friendship and parenthood.

1. Talk to them about the birds and the bees. One common mistake many parents make is to avoid discussing matters to deal with hormonal changes, dating and the dreaded S-E-X! The reality is that whether you like it or not, your kids will want to know about that kind of stuff. And if you don't talk to them about it, they'll find other sources, perhaps unfavorable ones, too! Be open about such topics and even relate some of your childhood experiences so they know you went through the very same thing.

2. Allow social outings with limits. Another mistake some parents make in their bid to protect their kids is to prevent them from going out with peers. Preventing your kids from hanging out with friends will likely create resentment, which could turn into disrespect. It's okay to allow your kids to go out, but let them know what their limitations are in terms of where they go, what they wear, and what time they're due back home!

3. Get involved in their activities. When kids see that you're actually interested in doing what they do, you'll definitely move up the coolness scale! Whether the activity is playing video games or installing apps on a cell phone, becoming involved will impress your kids! It will let them know that you support their choices, and they'll likely adhere to the limitations you place on those activities.

Often times, parents end up losing the respect of their kids because they don't embrace their ideas, thoughts and desires. Shutting them out results in resentment, which you definitely don't want! Once you embrace their desires and allow them to do the things they want with limitations, they'll be more likely to accept the rules set and adhere to them. Parenting can be tough, but what's important is keeping the channels of communication open from both sides of the relationship!

About the Author

William is a freelance writer living in Kitchener. He currently publishes a helpful baby product site http://babydollstroller.net/

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