Nice Guys Finish Last - Don't be Like Them Learn To Finish First

Have you ever been really nice to a girl and couldn't figure out why she turned you down flat? I mean you were so kind, generous, witty, polite and genuine. Yet some jerk ended up taking her home (and probably to bed) instead of you.

If you have never had this happen you are either A) Not a male or B) You haven't ever tried to date a female. This is one of the most common problems that men have in attracting females. We have this as an issue because we have been taught incorrectly.

Our Mommies, God bless their souls wanted the best for their little dude. She taught us to be gentleman, to open doors, buy nice gifts, and to be respectful to women. Why is it that despite all our good training girls seem to ditch us for some weird jerk every single time?

It just doesn't make sense. Well the problem is, your Mom was a great lady but she knew very little about attracting females. What she taught you was how she wanted to be treated, NOT what would turn her on.

Women do not go home with you because you are nice. You don't get a girls number because you bought them something. Females are attracted to men who spark in them a gut level reaction of lust and desire. This really isn't a foreign concept. If there is a female that you find ugly will you date her just because she is nice, typically not? The good news is that women are much less visually orientated than men are. Their attraction to us comes in other ways. But if they don't feel that longing in their gut for you, you will have just as much chance with them as the ugly girl has with you.

So how do you spark that desire in a female?

1) Be confident

2) Be charming

3) Be ready to walk away.

It really isn't that hard guys. confidence is something that you can develop. Women have the ability to see a lack of it from a mile away. Charm is something you can learn. What makes you the kind of person that others want to be around? Figure those things out and get better at being likable. Finally be ready to walk away.

Don't let a girl be the deciding factor of how you feel about your night. Be ready to walk away from the most gorgeous woman if she acts disinterested.

Two things will happen:

a) She will chase after you.

b) She will let you leave.

Either way you win, because if she doesn't chase after you, you never had an ice cubes chance in hell anyway, you were wasting your time.

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