3 Crucial Tips For Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back And Keeping Her

Panic and depression become your mortal enemies after a breakup. When your relationship with a girl ends and you desperately want her back it's important to make the right moves that will attract her back to you.

You need to take actions that pull her back to you because trying to push or force your way back into a relationship will never work. Instead, you'll only push her further away. Help is available that can steer you in the right direction.

First and foremost, your mindset and attitude become critically important as you work on figuring out a plan to get your girlfriend back. You must have the confidence that you CAN get her back and the self control to do what it takes to make it happen even if that means breaking off contact or accepting her desire to date someone else temporarily.

Patience and self control are vital. Jealousy and anger must be cast aside.

Second, if you want your ex girlfriend back, you must never resort to begging, pleading, lying, or telling her what you think she wants to hear just so she'll take you back. Honesty is of utmost importance. Apologize if you've done wrong, but more importantly work on yourself to become a better person. It's your actions and not your words that will make a difference.

Third, after a breakup, you must accept and understand how your girlfriend feels. You must realize that she will probably have negative emotions toward you and will need time to work her feelings out. You must not pressure her by calling, texting, or going over to her house to see her.

Give her time and space. If she loved you, then understand she will be confused because she will feel hurt, she will be angry, and she will miss you all at the same time.

It will be difficult to be away from her, but it's absolutely necessary if you want her back. By giving her time away from you, she will have a chance to miss you. When she misses you she will start to remember all the things she loved about you and how she wants those back.

If you don't give her this space, then she will feel pressured and cornered. Every time she thinks of you or your name comes up on her phone, she will instantly feel negative emotions toward you, and she'll want to get away from the thing causing her pain.

If you've successfully taken these actions, then you're now ready to execute the next steps of the plan.

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