Relationship Truths
Copyright (c) 2011 Karen Chai Kar Siang
It is essential that we develop an awareness of what we are looking for before we enter into a serious relationship. It is also important that we understand the circumstances that a relationship may lead us into; be it blissful marriage, great companionship or absolute havoc? After all we have to be careful about whom we choose to spend our valuable times with. And yet, sometimes without trying hard enough, we may just never know what we are actually getting ourselves into; as many too put it, love is blind. Nonetheless, what is most important for us to do is to understand better what we truly seek and strive to work things out from the positive light.
Remember when you choose to enter a relationship, there is the possibility that you may fall, break and experience a mix of everything in between; laughter, joy, sadness and despair. There is no such thing as a rosily every after or that all shall remain the same forever. After all, people do change, have feelings, emotions and can become moody all of a sudden due to everyday circumstances. People also grow weary and tired of the never changing routines or over the things that have been missing for long. One way or the other, there would be communication barriers that start building itself whenever conflicts arise. It is too when these conflicts happen, little breaks start tearing apart the relationship unknowingly eating it away slowly.
You may not be able to undestand everything or piece the puzzle together without gaps in between. This is one thing that any person in a relationship should avoid thinking; the notion that he/she has all the answers. We just do not know everything and it certainly is a heavy toll for us to look for all the missing pieces without asking some of these questions straight out. Sometimes, we thought we knew the other person so well but in fact it turns out to be the exact opposite. And sometimes, the pain can be derived from the fact of having been together for years and still not being able to understand what the other person is really thinking. This maybe a relationship heavily sustained over time and is over the edge; because can you imagine for how much longer can it stay that way? One way or the other, someone bears the pain if it is not a mutually understanding relationship.
Therefore, it is absolutely crucial to stay strong and look towards betterment in our future relationships, be it one with another or one that is alone by ourself.
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