What Is A Gold Digger

Copyright (c) 2010 Dan DeLa Cruz

Gold diggers are known to utilize deception in order to employ stealth tactics to arrive at their goal: they want to separate you from your money! They may act like they truly like you and wish to spend time with you but their real motivations are sickening: they are only interested in getting into your bank account and your wallet. Again, some of these gold diggers are stealthy which is why you need to use time as your weapon. Hence, you want to stay away from rushing into anything serious when you just meet someone. Rather, you need to get to know the person.

The main goal of a gold digger is to get money or some form of monetary compensation. The main weapon of the gold digger is deception. A gold digger uses deception to make you believe you are a person he/she likes. The person may even enjoy your company...to a degree. Their main goal here is to get your money. That's it! They want to get some sort of payoff for their time. They might even be quite patient to get what they want. This can make them a little harder to detect. You will certainly need to take proper precautions and not put a lot of trust in the person. To be sure you do not get taken in by a gold digger, here are some components a gold digger is known to embody.

Money: Gold diggers have one interest: getting your money. When there is no money or compensation available, the gold digger will get up and walk out. That is the way a gold digger is wired. Waiting out a gold digger is often the best way to deal with one. Although some gold diggers might be very patient and tougher to spot, in the end it's all about money.

Deception: The number one weapon of the gold digger is deception. A gold digger will not be of the mind to tell you flat out that money is what is sought after. The true intentions of such an individual will be hidden via deception. You may even found yourself in the company of a gold digger that outright despises you. However, the gold digger will hide their true feelings since the prime goal here is to get your money. As soon as your money completely runs out, the gold digger will be long gone. As sad as it sounds, many gold diggers employ such tactics because they lack the moral grounding more stable minded people possess. Again, the gold digger is only interested in one thing - money.

Is there any true defense against deception? If there was one sure way of defeating deception, it would be time. Gold diggers generally reveal their true intentions in time. You need to be aware of such gold diggers in as quick an amount of time as possible. This is where our free guide comes into play. It provides the perfect way to discover signs to look for, red flags, and specific questions to ask to weed out gold diggers.

Looks/Time/Affection/Sex: When a gold digger exchanges time, sex, or basic affection for money or any other form of compensation, they are showing their true personality. In a great many cases, a gold digger seeking to use looks and sex appeal to draw in a person with money. There will be some gold diggers that will seek out a lot of money from a person before ever allowing the relationship to progress. In many ways, the person that spends the money is outright victimized. This is why it is so very necessary to stay on top of how the person behaves.

Here is one more thing that I need to mention in this particular section: money will always matter in a relationship to some degree. There are many statistics that point to the notion that many divorces occur for financial reasons. All couples need to deal with money issues at some point. When not enough of it is there to go around, a great many serious problems will arise. With a gold digger, the only reason that such a person is with you is solely for money and money alone. This is a huge difference from others that may stick with you during tough financial times. This is true even if they opt not to stay with you if the financial problem exceeds the point of no return. A decent person will understand that finances have their ups and downs and this means they will cut you a lot of slack until the financial problems become too serious. The gold digger will not look at things from this perspective. They only see the relationship as worthwhile as long as money is part of the deal.

At the final end of the process, you discover you are deal with a gold digger, you need to take a look at the relationship closely and determine if you really want to continue with such a relationship. You need to take the steps to answer the following question if this is so....

The Question of Money: The money question that people need to ask is "Will this person get up and walk out on me if they could not make money from me?"

It is certainly nothing new that money is important in all walks of life. People know that. You just need to seriously consider the question and answer it honestly. When you run into financial hardship, you need to realize other people may treat you differently. Would you want a "loved one" to run out on you when things get tough? More than likely, you would want someone that was legitimate, mature, and understanding. You do not want a fair weather gold digger walking out on you in times of trouble. You may not immediately pick up on someone's true motivations at first. In time, however, if you know what to look for you can pick out the red flags. To improve you odds of doing so, you are well advised to check out our comprehensive free guide.

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