How To Deal With Depression In Your Family
Research indicates that about 20 million people in the United States are diagnosed with depression annually. In many cases, it is a mild form, and may be associated with a traumatic event, such as the loss of a loved one. However, in other cases, it can be more severe. This article focuses on how families can learn to deal with depression involving a family member.
In order to deal with a situation where a family member is suffering from depression, it is extremely helpful for all family members to learn about the symptoms and causes of depression. Some of the early warning signs of depression include is fatigue, or lack of energy, lack of concentration, sleep disorders such as insomnia, or sleeping too much, a loss of interest in things that used to be important, a lack of interest in sex, and persistent, negative feelings, such as feeling sad, feelings of guilt, insecurity, helplessness, and low self-esteem.
More severe signs of depression can include serious physical symptoms such as persistent headaches, digestive issues, stomach pains, cramping, or other aches and pains that don't subside with medical treatment. Also, an obvious sign of depression are thoughts of suicide, and of course a suicide attempt.
Once you have knowledge of some of these symptoms of depression, it helps to have knowledge of some of the basic causes of depression. These include work related or family related stress, relationship conflicts, abusive relationships, drug or alcohol abuse, the loss of a family member or close friend, major events such as getting married, having a babe, or moving to a new location, and finally genetics and biological issues.
Having an understanding of the symptoms and causes of depression can help you identify when a family member may be suffering from depression. If this is the case, then you can begin helping the individual. Here is what to do:
First, have a conversation with the person you think may be sick. Let them know what you have observed in their behavior, and that it is a good idea to seek treatment. Also, let them know that you are there to offer support.
Next, put together a network of support for the family member. Let other family members know what you have learned, and that you have had the initial conversation with the member who is suffering. Also, let that person's close friends know as well. A strong support group is the foundation for treating anyone with depression. When that group is put together, let your family member know.
Now it is time to seek treatment. Find a qualified therapist and set up a counseling session with them. If the therapist suggests it is a good idea to attend with the member seeking treatment, then go ahead and do that. Otherwise, at the very least, drive that member to the session and wait to take them home after the session. It is then a good idea to have a conversation with the member to discuss the prescribed treatment. That way, you can offer support at each step.
This is just a broad outline of what you can do for a family member in need when it comes to depression. Most people simply do not have an understanding of the symptoms and causes. When that is the case, their actions toward the family member who may be suffering from depression can be devastating. If you ever suspect that a family member is having issues with depression, take the time to educate yourself and find out what you can do to help. A strong support group will go a long way toward helping your relative recover more quickly.
About the Author
Scott Connor has had experience dealing with depression with a family member, and as a result has become an advocate for the treatment of clinical depression. For more information, visit http://www.yourtreatmentfordepression.com
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