Recovering From A Relationship Breakup
Copyright (c) 2013 Nancy Wylde
Everyone has gone through this at least once if not many times over and over during their lives and that is.....surviving a relationship break up.
What is astounding is that in spite of the many times we may have experienced a relationship break ups, be in a break up from a long term marriage or short term relationship, the pain from such a devastating blow is the same. It is almost unbearable.
Regardless if you have been dumped or you have initiated the break up, picking up the pieces of your broken life, broken dreams and hopes of what might have been or what could have been is never easy.
What happens almost immediately after a break up is waking up to the fact that you are now alone and that feeling of helplessness and hopelessness seems agonising, so agonising that quite often we can become focused on those emotions and lose sight of everything else. Gaining a sense of control over your life is integral at this point.
So, how do you do this as quickly as possible, as effectively as possible, as painlessly as possible?
FIND BALANCE QUICKLY, by using practical resources you can apply immediately that are proven to be EFFECTIVE to gain equilibrium back into your life.
Though there is no magic formula to ease your anger, your pain or frustration for your loss there are ways that you can deal with them effectively and in a more constructive and positive way.
There are many modalities available such as meditation, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), using sound therapy such as solfeggio harmonics, to name a few that you can get a hold of immediately to aide you in dealing with your emotions and bringing you back into balance so that you can at least find some relief and begin your journey toward healing.
Taking charge of your life on many levels including ensuring you are eating right, surrounding yourself with supportive friends and family, being kind to yourself and avoiding burying yourself in your pain and finding ways to get to a place where you FEEL good are the first most important steps towards recovering quickly.
Given our thoughts create our world and you understand this principle, then you would easily grasp that the sooner we place our minds upon thoughts that make us FEEL better the sooner our world changes for the better.
Recovering from a relationship break up is not easy but with the right attitude, the right tools which are easily available and readily at our disposal for use, it can be converted from a passage through hell or a doorway to a new and better way of living, a time for self-discovery and healing on so many levels so as to prepare you for a better you, a better life, one that you could not have imagined possible.
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