Love and Fear are the Spiritual Opposites that Create Your Experiences

The two emotions from which all thought originates are love and fear. Actually it all comes down to love, because fear would not exist except as the polar opposite of love. Fear was created when God made this physical world so we could experience love. When I say that fear was created what I really mean is that the “illusion of fear” was created along with the dualistic relative universe.

You can only know love by also knowing what love is not. We live in the world of the relative where what 'is' exists only by the virtue of its relationship to what 'is not'. Love exists by virtue of fear. The paradigm of oneness is based in love while the paradigm of separateness is based in fear.

The paradigm of oneness says that at our core is love. What we really are is love. If you are awake and aware of this then it only makes sense to live your life making love-based choices. That would be in alignment with who we really are and thus eliminate the stress, worry and frustration of choosing fear based thoughts and all of the baggage that comes along with them.

We need to look at these two concepts as pervasive when influencing the directions we choose on our life path.

If you choose the paradigm of separation, which is fear-based, you create a life that is permeated with fear-based choices, and you continually live out the consequences of your fear-based creations.

If you choose the paradigm of oneness, which is love-based, you create a life that is permeated with love-based choices, and you continually live out the consequences of your love-based creations.

Which world of consequences sounds better to you? You have experienced them both. You can detach yourself and observe them objectively to see what serves you and what does not serve you. You are the observer. Only you know what serves you best.

If you choose to live within the paradigm of oneness you take on the ideals of love, which brings you joy and leads to a life of truth. Love equals joy equals truth equals love. You can think of these as interchangeable in making life decisions.

Choosing to be joyful means your choices are love-based and since your very core is love, then the ultimate truth is love. So when you are confused and trying to make a life choice but need some guidance, you can always ask yourself before you make your choice “what will serve me best?”

What always serves you best is the truth and the ultimate truth is that you are love. Love brings you joy. What should you do? You should ask, “What would love do now?” Love will speak the truth to you and bring you joy.

Remember to bring love, truth and joy to your own life first. Love yourself with a love-based love that comes from oneness. If you love yourself with the fear-based love that comes from the separation paradigm, you experience a self-serving ego oriented love that doesn't truly serve you and does not serve others.

Loving yourself within the paradigm of oneness allows you to fill yourself with joy. You in turn give this joy to others and they see the truth of your love. It is not so much a self-serving love as it is a soul-sharing love. A love that gives without expectation of return because it is given freely and unconditionally. As soon as you set conditions on your love, you are not sending true love.

This is especially true with yourself. Love yourself unconditionally. Start with yourself. It all begins with you. You need the experience of unconditional love in your life so that you can share that experience with others.

What better way to experience it than to give it to yourself? When you do so you remove the limiting labels you have placed upon yourself and give yourself the liberating freedom that comes from doing so. As your freedom expands, opportunities open up to you and you become aware that all things are possible. You aren't as limited as you always thought yourself to be. Use this tool to wake yourself up. Don't get caught up in the ego. If you find that loving yourself first gives you an advantage over others, rethink what you are doing. Remember love-based love comes from a paradigm of oneness.

It is as simple and as complex as that.

True love creates joy. That is simple. Hold to this idea when the complexities come along. As you develop your truths, give thanks, and as your love brings you joy, give thanks again for the manifestation of your truths.

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