Millionaire Dating Tips: What Men Think Of Women Who Play Hard To Get

Women and men have different views about dating and how they would play it. So what better way to understand what men want from a man's own perspective? What men think about women who like to play hard to get and how it affects them.

Many advice for women state that they should play hard to get, men love women who are like that. It's a fallacy- in a man's view at least. Women would believe in such advice, but they are more likely to end up disappointed and hurt! Hard to get is one of the games women love to play but men don't like, not in the long term.

Here's some tips for the ladies to make them understand men better:

1. Why women like to play games.

Some of the classics that women love to play is the "playing hard to get" game. You may have read some of these tips that "dating gurus" would usually advice to you when it comes to treating a man in a club or on a date. - "If a guy approaches you then ignore him.", "Don't call or answer to his texts the next day after you met." or "Try and be elusive when he wants to make plans with you."

So women, have you done any of this? What do you think about this kind of behaviour? It makes you think that "you are a prize he has to win over", "you're not the only guy after me so be competitive" or "he'll value me harder after this". This is the kind of psychology in which women would like to manipulate their feelings- and their dates. You know, hide their real feelings and make themselves look more "mysterious" and "in demand"- the wannabe tough nut image that a woman would like to convey.

2. The "cat-string" theory.

So you like to play games. You don't answer his calls. You tell him that you are so busy even when you are not. You cancel plans at the last minute and you don't even apoligise for your shortcomings. You might think that the harder you are to get, then the more he would want to have you. Well, initially it will get his attention. But play it again or take it further and you'd be surprised as to how he'll react on it. Once you finally give in to him, he won't see it as something as great as before. Hah! Talk about big dissapointment on your part.

When you would dangle a string to a cat, he's do his best to get it but tire out eventually. Once you give it to him, the cat wouldn't want it that much anymore. Same with women, if you keep playing these games, you'll continue to withdraw yourself from your feelings. Women would fear losing hold of that certain "power" over men in which they believe can pull their strings, that's why they continue doing it. Once you realise your mistake, it's already the end of the game for you. Playing hard to get is not the route to getting the man. Temporarily it is kind of flattering but play it too long and he'd lose interest in you- he'd be tired of you by then.

Be genuine about your feelings and don't let him be left hanging. If not, you'd end up with insecure blokes who are clingy and dependent- or get karma straight back at you and meet a guy who'll play this games to you. How would you feel then? Be real, be honest and lose the "hard to get" attitude. Play the game, but not too long or the price will be too steep for you.

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