Ways to Get that First Kiss

Men and women alike have plenty of horror stories to tell about their very first kiss. By the time we reach the dating scene, though, we're well past the initial awkwardness of two people's lips touching, and the main worries are what her reaction will be and if it's the right moment. Chances are, you'll know exactly when to kiss her.

1. Man up Boys shuffle their feet and avoid eye contact before darting in for a surprise kiss. Men look into a woman's eyes, knows she wants him as much as he wants her, and takes that little risk to lean in and kiss her on the lips.

2. Watch her eyes One of the telltale signs of a woman waiting to be kissed is if she is glancing from your eyes to your lips. The moment a woman realizes she wants to kiss a man, she becomes fascinated with his lips and entranced by his eyes.

3. Hold her hand Kissing is a very intimate form of touch. To ease that first contact, make sure you have touched her hand or shoulder sometime before or during conversation or flirtation.

4. Start with a cheek kiss If cuddling and closeness has preceded the kissing moment, placing a kiss on her cheek or temple is a good way to ease into the more intimate mouth kiss. Because a kiss on the cheek is seen as a casual and adorable act, it will lighten the mood and help her relax, too. It's a display of gentleness and will show her that you are into her specifically, not just into what might happen later on.

5. Whisper in her ear. Like kissing her on the cheek, a quiet whisper in her ear will tell her in a gentle, romantic way that you want to kiss her more intimately. You don't have to say anything particularly romantic during the whisper; in fact, you don't actually have to say anything at all. Simple placing your mouth close to her ear and breathing softly will, if she's into it, send shivers up her spine and make her want that kiss as much as you do.

The thing that stops most men from leaning in for that first taste of sweetness is the fear that once rejected, they will be forever in the doghouse. If your lips land on a woman's cheek the first time you lean in to kiss her, take it in stride. Often times, if she doesn't excuse herself right then and there, she will be ready for your first kiss just a little while later.

Remember, always, that a kiss, while just the first step in what will hopefully be a very exciting night, is a very intimate action. Ease your lady into being touched by you, make sure she knows you can and want to be gentle with her, and don't get scared away if she's not quite ready the first time you lean in.

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