Getting a Man to Love You
Sick of obsessing about how to get him to love you? Well, I'm sorry to tell you but love potions are the stuff of fiction and there is no such thing as a 100% guaranteed way to make a man love you. Take a deep breath. Don't post that you are confirmed single yet. You now have the ability to get just what you want. Because now you can set reasonable expectations and agree that you can't control everything. This is important because now you can begin to express those wonderful traits that will draw the right man to you. You don't want to be a control freak, do you?
Here are some things that you can do to increase your odds of getting a man to love you:
1. Learn to love the person you are
This may sound corney, but it's true. Loving yourself is the very best way to getting a man to fall for you. No one wants to be with someone who's having a constant pity party, like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh. Confidence attracts confident men. And no man wants to walk on egg shells when it comes to your self image and self esteem. You show the world that you are someone worthy of love when you love who you are, yourself. Just don't go too far. After all, the world doesn't revolve around you. You'll just come across as arrogant, and that's not attractive to men.
2. Being Self-Obsessed is Sabotage
This is about loving yourself, but not too much. Being self obsesses will not make him want to love you. There's also negative self obsession, when you are worried all the time about a certain thing about yourself, such as your attractiveness or your coolness. But then again, focusing on your wonderful traits is also very unattractive. Find the right combination of being confident and self assured while also being concerned and empathetic about others.
3. Don't reject trying new things
You haven't done everything, seen everything, or heard everything yet. By putting yourself in front of these new experiences, you may be putting yourself in front of your perfect match. You will meet new men, who you wouldn't have thought your type before, when you try new things. By changing you stringent dating standards, you may just find that someone you had previously over-looked was the one who loved you all along.
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