Winning Back Your Ex-Boyfriend: Don't Make This Relationship-Killing Mistake
You are in pain. Your boyfriend has left you, maybe over your protests and your repeated requests for him to give your relationship another chance have gotten you nowhere.
He's gone, and you're feeling hurt and rejected, and wondering if you will ever find the man of your dreams, who will also see you as his dream girl.
Relax. Take a deep breath. You can win back your ex-boyfriend, and winning him back will probably be a lot easier than you think it will be.
But you can only get him back by using tactics that tap directly into male psychology. You must hit his specific male emotional hot buttons.
Unfortunately, many women do exactly the wrong things trying to get back an ex-boyfriend, and worse yet, they never know what they did that actually pushed him even farther away.
Fact: male psychology is very different from female psychology. Here is just one of major mistakes that women often make in trying to win back an ex-boyfriend.
Lack of challenge: Men are programmed since prehistoric times to take pleasure and pride in a chase. They value those things that they win through pursuit, because for them, that "winning" reinforces their hard-wired need to prove that they are better than the other men around them.
What does this mean you should (or more importantly should not do)?
Sadly, you may have been working very hard at pleasing your man, thinking that constantly attending to his needs would make you more desirable to him.
Unfortunately, the exact opposite is true. When your man becomes accustomed to knowing that you are going to treat him like a king, he almost instantly begins to lose interest in you.
Why? Because you yourself have removed the element of challenge in your relationship. He no longer needs to pursue you, so there is no more challenge for him to win. He moves on looking for another "challenge."
Don't blame him personally for this. He can't help it - it's just part of his male wiring, and you can't change that.
Here's what you should do. Immediately stop phoning, emailing, texting your ex. Don't send any more messages through his friends. If he should call you, let your voice mail pick up the call. Ignore texts and emails. If you meet one of his friends, act cheerful, happy, and busy.
This may be painful for you - probably it will be. But stay strong, and know that every day that you allow to go by without having any contact with your ex brings you one day closer to getting him back.
This, of course, is just a summary of one of many powerful, effective, and proven tactics for winning back your ex-boyfriend. To implement this and other proven tactics in the most powerful way, you will need more exact directions and even word-for-word scripts.
Whatever you do, don't contact him until you know more about the total strategy, and don't give up hope. You can win him back. You just need exact, proven directions on how to do it.
About the Author
Melanie McNeill has helped thousands of women win back their ex-boyfriends. You're next! But, you must know the real reason he left you (almost certainly not what he told you), and you must know the proven psychological laws that will put you back in his arms again. You can get him back! Don't wait for someone else to work her way into his heart. Get started today at http://beam.to/GetHimBackNow.
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